Erin SchadenSome Further Thoughts on Home…I received an amazing gift while I was on the East Coast. The wife of an old friend found out I lived in Ojai and she just raved about it…6h ago6h ago
Erin SchadenThoughts on Vulnerability…Ok, so first I have to own that I do not do it well. I mean, I am better, at least I think I am better…maybe not. Fuck, I don’t know. I…1d ago1d ago
Erin SchadenMudita…If you are present for your life, if you are here doing the deal, engaging with others, you will have many occasions to see them, to…3d ago3d ago
Erin SchadenExhaustion…So it hits differently in middle age. Like when I was younger, I would plod through the next day, get some rest and be ok on the next day…5d ago5d ago
Erin SchadenSolitude…What if you weren’t meant to be with others? I mean, we are social animals, but what if you, as a social animal, was just not meant for…Jun 23Jun 23
Erin SchadenDisordered Relating…I have been surviving on crumbs. Anorexically relating. Sometimes a nightly phone call of limited duration. Maybe a few texts during the…Jun 221Jun 221
Erin SchadenFlirting with Clues…So much of a start to love or loving, or desire or wanting starts off with clues. Someone holds our gaze longer, they smile broadly when we…Jun 21Jun 21
Erin SchadenPlot Twist…I feel like I am in one. I mean, life continues to march forward but I feel completely and totally confused about what is going on…I feel…Jun 20Jun 20
Erin SchadenHard Conversations…They are, well, hard, right? Hard to have, hard to hear, they are just fucking awful. But, I have learned, the hard way because apparently…Jun 19Jun 19
Erin SchadenSurprises…As a general rule, I am not a fan. Mostly because I am a control freak. And I would rather know than not know. So surprises have always…Jun 18Jun 18