One thing I have noticed about the pandemic is that everyone seems to be dealing with the collective consequences of having the illusory rug pulled out from under us. We all used to walk around with this idea that we knew what was going to happen. We future planned. We vacationed. We decided things. But then suddenly in March of last year, we all experienced an abrupt departure of how we thought things would go.

Many things happened that we didn’t think possible. Businesses closed, courts shut down, the virus raged and the experts had little effective advice about how to manage pretty much…