17 hours agoCuration — Further Thoughts.I am in this process, this process of curating my life. I have always been doing this, I suppose. But I didn’t know I was, until more recently. We are all doing it, but very unmindfully and unintentionally. Which is sad. …Curation5 min read
2 days agoThank you, Sir Joshua!Fuck, I don’t even know where to begin this blog. I had one of the best days of my life yesterday. I mean the fucking best. It was amazing from start to finish. Have you ever had a whole day where you were happy, and a little sad but it…Joshua Tree9 min read
3 days agoWhat the F#%! Do Women Want?So many topics swirling in my head this morning. For starters, why my head thought 2 am was a good time to get up this morning!? Why? We don’t know. It just woke up and started lobbing blog topics at me. Like the ball machine on the tennis court…I have…What Women Want12 min read
4 days agoAsthma Attack Praying…My son had an asthma attack on Saturday evening, it was scary. First because he is in Montana and I am in Ojai. It was really hard to be separated from him when he was in crisis. Two, it was hard because it was so unexpected. He hasn’t really had…Love Mother8 min read
5 days agoFrom Woo Hoo! to Uh Oh!I had coffee yesterday with a fellow writer friend. Who also happens to be hilarious. Brilliant and hilarious. We started off the conversation with her making the comment, I forget about what, but she said something in her life went from Woo Hoo! to Uh Oh! I laughed and could…Murder Of Crows6 min read
6 days agoGetting in the Box…I know not likely the best metaphor for relationshiping, but it works for me, or rather it is fitting, or rather, now ill-fitting. This is how I have seen it. This is how it has always felt for me. A guy comes along with his box, his version of who…Examples8 min read
May 15Being Found…I am running with this theme still. Sorry. I have been lost a lot in life. Like so many times. So very many, many times. …Found4 min read
May 14Tangents of Found…I wrote yesterday about being lost. Today, perhaps I feel a little more found. I am not sure why, I just do. A little more ok with being in my skin. This morning I got to celebrate two women whom I admire, love and appreciate, I got to watch them…Tangents4 min read
May 13Getting Lost…I feel lost. Truth be told, I am lost. I have no job, no idea what I am really doing. I am starting a new business, my son is coming home, my daughter is struggling, I am getting a puppy. In some ways, my life has never felt more mine…which…Lost5 min read
May 12Doing vs. Deserving to Do…I am not sure where this one is going to go… I got this topic from my sponsor yesterday. She made it in response to a comment I made about booking a nice hotel for my desert retreat next week. I said that I was thinking about staying at this…High Dives5 min read